Girl advice: Is she into me

October 28, 2011

I met this girl online. She emailed me and we soon then started "talking" through text messaging. We then moved it to AIM. I said I defintely felt a connection, she said the same. Anyway we plan to meet up (she’s working two jobs and had her shift covered so she could go out with me) and last night we meet for mini golf. She calls me right before and asks where I am. Next thing I know she is walking through the doors on her phone (with me) and she smiles and we hug. All throughout the game we are standing close to each other, she is playing around, like tapping her club on mine, trying to make me mess up, talking a lot, etc. Oh and she was talking during one hole and said how when she said my profile she thought "This guy is really cute…I’ll message him." When I was about to putt she bumps her thigh on mine. Lots of physical contact. Anyway we make a bet (she chooses what the bet is) that the loser buys the winner coffee. Well I won. So she still suggested we go to the mall for coffee (she works at Starbucks). We get there and she introduces me to your boss and coworkers as her "date." We sit and drink coffee, talk (for 40 minutes), and then we get up and go outside to watch a youtube video on her phone. So minutes later we depart. She knows I took the light rail/public transit there so she offers to give me a ride. I decline, say I’m meeting my friend across the street. We hug and I say we should see a movie soon. She replies "Yeah I know totally" and that "we’ll figure it out later."

I thought she was into me and all that. But she hasn’t texted me all day. I texted her around 2:30p to say "everyone asked my friend and I why we went blond." She said she liked the blond buzz and was feeling it twice. Well she still hasn’t replied.

What do you think? Am I worrying too much?

She does work two jobs and she has taken a while to text me back before we met too. Give me your advice, girls! Do you think she’s into me…she’s just busy working? Or is she ignoring me?

We’re in our twenties.

I think you are worrying too much. just give it some time sweetie and it will all work out for the better. How it was meant to be.

No, don’t text her today. You don’t want to seem annoying.

She is a very busy girl, so maybe that’s it. Or… she seemed to come across kind of strong, and you were a perfect gentleman. She might be used to guys coming across strong so she could be wondering if you really like her. Either way, I wouldn’t worry about it too much or you will drive yourself nuts!

Why don’t you try calling her tomorrow, and asking if she’s free this weekend? See how she reacts to that…. if she plays it kinda cool, then just leave the ball in her court and let her call you when she’s free.