How to stop a guy from staring??!!

October 26, 2011

THIS IS MY PROBLEM.
This school cop, who by the way is like a foot taller than me and he is young and intimidating is always staring at me. no joke. i have caught him but since i don’t like staring back at people i turn away really easily. once me and my sister (who works in the school) were sitting in one of the benches outside and the cop guy comes in his police car and parks it right in front of us. have no idea why he did that but he stayed in the car for like a few minutes and then went inside the school building. Like in the lunch line (there is 2 lunch lines) if I go on 1 line he moves to that line when he sees me and when I go on the other line he moves to that one. When my friends and I sit down on a table he moves all the way from one side of the cafeteria to the other. I have noticed. Even outside when he is "patrolling" the area in a golf cart, i feel his stare.
I have not told my sister about this. I bet she won’t believe me. any suggestions?
By the way, if this helps.. I’m in Athletics. I’m a girl of course. And I am in High School. I’m just asking for ways to make this guy understand that I don’t like him, I never will and that he better stop it!
Any ways to make him stop staring? Thanks

Wear more clothes. Don’t wear makeup. Look as unattractive as physically possible.

confront him. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. And hes a dirty ass child molestin pig

GIVE HIM A PICTURE OF YOURSELF , MAYBE HE GET THE HINT NOT TO STARE ANYMORE !

Thats a total creeper problem. you need to report this or just speak directly to him and tell him to stop, if he doesn’t then, it could turn into something much more serious. Talk to his superior officer, teacher, or the principle. Hope i helped

When I catch someone staring at me, I stare them down.

I will just stare back, right in the eyes.

Eventually they look away out of awkwardness. They dont do it again after that.

Stare back.

Also, if he’s an adult and you’re a minor, you need to report him. Even if you are 18 you should still report him, he’s abusing his authority.

Wow this is a different situation since u’re still a kd and he’s an adult. This could become relatively dangerous so stay safe! Idk what to tell u but to just ignore him. Never look at him and maybe his interest will go away. If this was a regular highschool boy, I would give him a lil dirty look to show that I’m not interested. But this might not work with an adult. Be safe! Never be alone!

I’ll assume you aren’t trolling.

If the officer is exhibiting this kind of behavior toward high school girls in the open, there’s no telling what’s going on in his mind. There’s no excuse for that kind of behavior, especially from someone behind a badge. If he can’t control his behavior, he could be more of a security liability than an asset.

Report the behavior directly to the principal, he/she should know who to talk to administratively.

You may not be the only one he does that to. Help the next girl out and report him. Even if he doesn’t get disciplined this time, it should get the point across and establish a pattern of behavior for his eventual administrative removal (should it be necessary).

EDIT: There are some comments about staring back, confronting him, ignoring him or dealing with him personally. I suggest you get someone in the administration involved as soon as possible rather than to engage him personally. Even negative attention is still attention… and it will make you stand out more. Ignoring it will allow the situation to get worse.

Getting an anonymous complaint will make him wonder who reported or even caught him. If you try to confront him first, he’ll have an indicator as to who did it. The situation could develop a number of ways from there, but him not knowing who did it would definitely be better.